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The Key to Confident Parenting

February 22, 2016 · In: Motherhood

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People ask me often, “How do you do it”. You make being a single parent of 4 look so easy. Honestly, there can be challenges, but it’s not that tough. Just like anything else, there are basic attributes needed to make it work. With basic qualities you can become a more confident parent.

You have to be determined.

You must be determined to be a good mom in your own right. Not according to anyone else’s standards but your own. Determine what motherhood means to you, then set a standard for yourself. What things are important to you? How do you choose to deal with situations that arise? After doing this, stick to your standard. It doesn’t matter how others are doing it or what others say. When you define your guidelines for yourself, you will be so much more confident in what you are doing. You have to persevere past criticism and judgement. At the end of the day it is about the outcome you desire for yourself.

There were times when my child care costs were as much as I made monthly, but I knew that it would all work out, because I was determined to make it. I wasn’t sure how, but I knew I wasn’t going to let myself down. I was confident in my ability as a mom.

You have to learn to continue on past adversity and be confident in your decisions. Things will not always be perfect and things may not always go the way you think it they should. Actually, things will be a hot mess at times but you have to be determined to make it work! Your solution may be just around the corner so keep going, stay consistent and make your own rules.

You must have the ability to take action.

With so many decisions to be made daily it is easy to get caught up in the decision making process. After thinking about a choice for a reasonable amount of time, you must have the ability to put your decision into action. I have seen mothers go back and forth with the smallest decisions. To a certain point I understand. But, what other people think and what if’s should not keep you contemplating more than necessary.

[Tweet “If you are tired of your current circumstances, you have to find the courage to place one foot in front of the other and go for it!”]

Have faith above all else.

You have to know that your circumstances will eventually change and you will not always in be in that place. Often times situations can seem more than what they really are while we are in them. See yourself where you want to be and believe that you can be there.

Do not fix your mouth to make a complaint. Complaining is counterproductive. Speak faith, prosperity, love, hope, joy, companionship. Verbally walk yourself through each situation by talking through it. Say it out loud, write it down so you can see it, then tell someone else for accountability.

Confident Parenting is simply about knowing your boundaries and not allowing other people’s opinion bother you.

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First off, forget them people! Respectfully… Bu First off, forget them people! Respectfully…

But, I get it!  Most times we lack confidence worrying about other people’s opinion on this or that, but… 

- Stop trying to prove people wrong and prove yourself right! This is about you. You overcoming your fears. You finding the audacity to be great. You pursuing YOUR best life.

- Surround yourself with people that pour into you. Having the right support system is essential. It helps you ignore the noise around you. Join an online group, meetup with positive people local to you.

- Figure out the area you lack confidence in and build yourself up in that area.

- Feel the fear and do it anyway! You gotta just push through. Keep working. Keep showing up. Keep building.

Save this post and reference it when you feel self doubt creeping in.

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Here are a few things I do to make sure the business and the babies are setup for success:

- Write down everything I need to get done this week on Sunday. I literally do a brain dump of all the things.

- Then I prioritize these things from most important to least! …because let’s be real I wanna do everything but there’s only so much time in the day 😂 

- Then I schedule the first 3 things in my planner for Monday. I like to see it here and put in Google calendar.

- I plan, shop, and prep all my meals for the week on Sunday too. Because who got time for “What y’all wanna eat?” everyday lol 

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My plan was to make it through their daycare days, but I done got out here an built an empire!

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So, yeah. I’m gonna be right here, taking care of my babies.

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